Getting Your Ex Back - Tips For Reconstructing Contact

By Bernard Phelps

Chances are you have heard the tip that it's never a brilliant idea to swamp your ex with communication shortly after a break. A bit of space and time is always suggested irrespective of whether or not you would like to get your ex back at last, but there does come a time in your scheme for getting him or her back where you are going to have to make contact again...but how? That is what I'm here to help you with!

Re-establishing contact with an ex should only be done after you've both had some space and time away from one another, and you used that isolation from your ex to do some real work on getting your things straight. Even once that's all good and you are prepared to contact your ex again, you need to go about it correctly.

A "heavy" contact full of feelings and talk about getting back together is a really bad idea at this stage. You are doubtless still injuring from the breakup, and likely so too is your ex...and the 1st impulse you will give your ex by hammering him or her with this sort of talk is anxiety or panic. You could extraordinarily well cause yourself to lose your ex for good!

Because of this, getting back in contact with your ex should be a "light" contact without any overwhelming "relationship talk." Your first communication should be an ice-breaker, not a relationship-fixer. It is a slow process to rebuild a relationship, and you want to acknowledge that and take it easy. The most counseled avenues of a contact re-initiation are a quick email, text message, or phone call. Meeting in the flesh is mostly a bit too forward for such a fragile situation.

Remember that you don't want to scare your ex away with "touchy-feel talk," so keep it friendly. Ask how they have been doing, and essentially make your presence and willingness to associate with them known. You are reconstructing from the bottom up, starting at comradeship and working from there. Pushing the gas too fast...well, I suspect I have made it obvious what that might do.

If all goes well with the primary contact, the way is open to keep going on a gentle incline. Eventually the time should come when you are spending time together again, and that is where you can shine as a new and enhanced you. After you get the door open, it is up to you how you would like to walk through it. - 30535

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Cosmic Ordering And Its Effect On Your Life

By Samantha Hill

More and more people are looking for ways to enjoy their lives and fulfill their desires these days. They are trying to accomplish their goals and also satisfy their materialistic and other aspirations. In today's world there are more and more ways of getting the kind of life you want but nothing is as good as cosmic ordering.

Cosmic ordering can be simply described as a different kind of spiritual practice which helps you to attain all that you want from the universe. It can be likened to an ordering service where you order your heart's desire and you will get it. However, though this is a spiritual process, you don't need to be a saint or be a complete philanthropist or something as good as that to use it. Goodness does count and help. However this method works as well for regular people.

When you are able to spiritually manifest your goals and dreams, then it's known as cosmic ordering. All you need to do is ask for what you want from the universe or just state your ambition. It can be something as easy as getting a new pen to some thing as big as wanting to be a millionaire. You don't have to know how it will happen, whether it will happen by changing your life or conditions.

Dr. Deepak Chopra and Dr. Wayne Dyer believe that to manifest your order with the universe, you need to be in something known as the 'field of intent'. This is nothing but an invisible energy field which aids and catalyses the connection between the spirit and the universe and helps in manifesting our desires.

Most of us have done this before though unconsciously and not realized it. There may have been a time when you desired something badly or really wanted something and then you got what you wanted. You may have labeled it as a coincidence but it was actually the cosmos fulfilling your order.

Power of intention is vital to cosmic ordering since intention is nothing but an amalgamation of our innermost faith and desires. We need to have complete conviction that we deserve what we want and really want it. This is the only way to make cosmic ordering work.

There are many people who may say that they want a new house or a coveted promotion or job. However, deep inside consciously or subconsciously they may not believe that they worked hard to get their wishes or that they deserved it. For this to work, you need to believe that you deserve what you are asking for.

This process of cosmic ordering is one of the simplest and the easiest to do and it can really give you a better life. The only downside is that you need to use it well and for manifesting positive things. If you believe that you will just get negative then it will work in the way you think and you may get negative things.

Hence, if you think your boss will fire you and keep thinking that, then chances are that it will happen. Therefore, you need to just think, talk and believe that you will get all the positive things that you desire and want.

Many people who have been trapped in bad conditions and think that they don't deserve happiness or the good things of life don't really realize the truth and hence it is almost next to impossible for them to learn to manifest the good things.

Your subconscious mind can also become your biggest enemy and hindrance in manifesting the things that you desire because the beliefs fed into it for years may not allow it to believe in the cosmic ordering service.

Communication with the subconscious mind can be accomplished by self hypnosis, meditation and simple affirmations. It's not tough at all!

People around the world have used cosmic ordering to make their life more joyful and fun. So, you too order your heart's desires and have a great life which is full of love and happiness. - 30535

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Motorcycle Radio Show

By L.J. James

I have felt and been a part of Biker Brotherhood almost all of my life. Growing up around My Father (Freelance Author on the Biker Lifestyle Pappy) and my Uncle Trey, I was taught what Biker Brotherhood was about from a very young age. As I grew up I heard many stories about the fun had at Parties, Runs and Rallies.

I also heard about protests (Mostly Helmet) I heard how Bikers were the last of the true Americans. I was taught Bikers believe in Freedom and are willing to fight for it at all costs! As I got older I attended many events and I rode allot.

I became active in Motorcycle Rights groups (mostly ABATE of NY) and I did my part to protect and promote the Biker Lifestyle, I wrote many articles in Biker Magazines and I DJed and MCed many Bike events helping to spread the word of Biker Rights.

In March of 2005 I became a Member of the Mortal Skulls MC and not long after I felt what it meant to be a part of a Motorcycle Club Brotherhood. I also got to know and learn from many members of other MC's. The more I learned and the better I got to know these Men (the world referred to as 1%ers and Outlaws) the more I realized most of these people were the best people in the world, These are the Men who made and continue to make America great! I had heard many negative things about Motorcycle Clubs over the years and the more I was grew apart of the MC life the more I realized something needed to be done.

So my focus shifted from covering parties in Magazines to writing about true Biker Brotherhood. I realized one of the things negatively effecting the Motorcycle World is no one was teaching the younger generation of Motorcycle riders what it really means to be a Biker. The rules and codes of the road where all being lost, TV Show and Docudramas where teaching a Biker History that had no basis in reality. To this day I continue look up and write down as much truth of the history of Motorcycles and the Motorcycle Club world as I can.

I was getting the word out but I wanted a way to be able to speak to Bikers so they could hear my words and feel them expressed as they came from my heart! I knew I wanted to do some kind of Biker Talk Radio Show to help get the message out there. Every radio station I spoke with was either not interested or wanted some huge amount of money up front .

One day I learned about internet Radio! I learned I could do a live show that could be heard world wide on every computer and also all the shows would be archived so they could be heard anytime from the beginning just by clicking on them. I soon started a weekly show about a half hour long each Wednesday coming up with the name "The Biker Lowdown" The show started with just me talking to people about different things going on in the Motorcycle World.

Not long after the show started I was getting weekly calls from this Guy Chuck who called himself the Alpha Biker, Checking his webpage out I quickly learned both me and Chuck were cut from the same cloth and He became the Co-host of the Biker Lowdown.

Soon after thanks to the on air Chemistry and the great radio banter between me and Chuck the show started taking off. My good friend Bjorn took over as the online webmaster creating a webpage all could be proud of.

Hammerin Hank soon joined the Biker Lowdown clan as our Research Reporter. Things just kept getting better for the show.We started getting many great guests and even a few really big names of the Motorcycle world.

When Brenda Fox came on the show one night for an interview to talk about the world of Women's Motorcycling, some where about five Minutes into the interview We all just knew We had a new member of the Biker Lowdown Family! I look forward to seeing what the Future brings for the Biker Lowdown Radio Show,

But for now I am Your Bro LJ James and I will see you on the Road!!!

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Happiness, Success And Law Of Attraction

By Simon Ward

Happiness and Law of Attraction in fact have a strong correlation with each other. If you haven't heard of the Law of Attraction, no problem. It's very easy to understand, actually. It's quite similar to positive thinking, and basically embodies the idea that if you want a positive life, your thoughts must be positive, too. In turn, this can attract all things related to happiness and wealth into your life.

The Law of Attraction isn't a new concept and in fact has been around for a long, long time. It really works. When you think positive thoughts, the Law of Attraction isn't far behind. Think about this for a minute. Do you know someone who seems to 'have it all,' and is relaxed, carefree, and comfortable in his or her own skin? That's because they live by the adage that positive thoughts mean positive things. In other words, if you think negative thoughts, that's what you're going to attract. If you think positive thoughts, that's also what you're going to attract.

Your thoughts are made up of energies, which is also what you are. If you are thinking positive thoughts, then you are made up of positive energy and abundance in your life will follow.

The Law of Attraction and happiness work together. So even though it might seem difficult, start to tell yourself that you are wonderful, great, beautiful, wealthy, and so on. Even if you don't feel like it, do it all day long. These types of positive affirmations can really help you deal with the current vagaries of life and get through them successfully.

Some examples of positive affirmations include: 'I am friendly and love people, and they love me back;' 'I am grateful, and find MORE reasons to be grateful everyday;' or 'Opportunities are endless and I have unlimited choice in the world.' Choose several affirmations to use throughout the day, every day.

Either way, it's especially important to do this even when you don't feel like it. If you become discouraged, frustrated, sad or angry, it's even more important to focus on the positive. It's truly important to address and dispense with negative beliefs and thought processes if you want a truly happy and fulfilling life.

In fact, your mind is your only to limitation to having the life you want. Do you think you can't live a life that's happy and abundant? Why not? Other people have certainly done it. Dwelling on the negative is only going to get you more negative, so don't do that.

In addition, learn to 'go with the flow.' That's important because positive energy flows, and if you know this, it will flow in your life in one way or another.

Once you begin to see that the Law of Attraction and happiness are interconnected, you'll see that things will begin to right themselves in your life.

If you're feeling sad or depressed, that negativity will drive happiness away from you. And, if you dwell on it, you may end up wallowing in it by watching a depressing movie, hanging out with negative friends, and so on. If you stay in this state long enough, you're going to build your life around negative circumstances without even realizing you're doing so.

The wonderful thing is that you can remove bad luck from your life by using positive affirmations and law of attraction techniques. The worst thing you can do is give up. Continue to reassure yourself that you are the happiest person alive and watch the opportunities come pouring in! - 30535

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How It Is Possible To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - Super Easy Tips

By Clint Dean

Did your ex girlfriend split with you and now you need to understand how to get your ex girlfriend back?

I went thru the same not to long ago...

Fortunate for you I have some awesome tips for you to use to get your ex back swiftly. These are the same tips I used to get my ex girlfriend back, so trust me they work!

First Things you shouldn't Do...

Never blame her for anything she may have done to you. Take some responsibility for your actions and focus on areas where you can approve. Was it something similar to you where straightforward to anger or you couldn't control your temper? It might be a smart idea to sign up for some classes to control this.

Some other things You Must Do

Work out why you fellows broke up in the first place. You must get to the "root cause" so you can make a plan of action to correct it. Once you correct the cause why you and your ex split up you are on the right path to being brought back together with your ex girlfriend. This is a good way on how it is possible to get your ex girlfriend back.

Be yourself and stay devoted to her : It is pretty much the popular thing to try to make your ex jealous. The reality is, if she sees you remaining trustworthy to her, she's going to find that very mature and of good quality. This alone might attract her to you more

Do a Favor for her : make a little voucher and stick it somewhere where she'll find it. Have on it "redeem at any time." The idea is to let her know you are there for her and you will be there for her any time she wishes you.

The Last Tip

Learn how to communicate with your ex efficiently. This mean you should sit done with her one on one and debate your problems that was the cause of split.

Do not...I repeat...Do not start an argument with your ex.

Just tell her how you truthfully feel and let her do the same. You could be surprise about how much you men do not know about one another.

But Wait! .We do not even know if you can even get your ex girlfriend back... - 30535

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How To Secrets About Controlling Your Anger

By Broyde McDonald

Anger is simply one of a number of emotions that contribute to the true character and personal power of a person. The way that you handle and control your anger helps determine the way the world responds to you.

While anger is uncontrolled, it is terrifying and dangerous and can lead to more anger. Controlled anger is another form of anger and it is helpful for solving problems. The facts are that if it were not for anger, many times there would be things wrong and we would not know that they needed fixing.

One of the ways you can tell if you have control of your anger is by noticing the way you feel and act when angry. If you can calmly choose your words, and not experience any tenseness or anxiety inside you, you can be free to think that your anger is being managed alright.

However, if when you are angry you only recognize what you said after you had said it, then you need to fix this area because you can cause more trouble for yourself.

There are many ways that you can control you anger. Are you going to control your anger? Good there are a lot of tools to help you do this? All you need to do is sort through and find the methods that work best for you.

The first two things you want to do when controlling your anger is first, understand when you are starting to get angry. The second thing you need to be able to do is quickly gather up your willpower when you do start to get mad and do something that calms you instead of letting your anger swell into rage.

Excuse mehold on a minuteone secondbe right backyou can use one of these, or a similar phrase to rescue yourself from a potentially hostile situation. You only need to say it, walk away, and stay away until your anger has cooled off.

Walking away is like training wheels on a bicycle. You will only need to use this method until you get better at managing your anger. Once your anger management skills are improved you will be able to skip the walking away step and use another skill in its place.

However, until then walking away and counting slowly, first to ten, twenty or one thousand as needed until you are no longer angry will keep the damaging effects of anger away.

Until you are controlling your anger better, make sure that you are not underestimating the power of this act to help. It is simple, but it has helped others and it will help you too.

When thinking about long term solutions to your anger situation, let the place you start at be taking the time to relax every day. As you take the time out to daily get some time alone and think about the things that satisfy you, you will get out of your angry situations much more easily. Whether you believe it or not, doing this will take a lot of the tension out of your anger.

Get a little help with managing your anger.

If you decide that you want to get your anger under control more speedily, I suggest that you use one of the classes offered by one of these two anger management professional programs. You can expect that in 8 weeks of training, that you will be able to handle your anger 20% better than you can now. - 30535

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How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back - The Steps You Want To Take

By Jamie Drake

Dangerous times calls for desperate measures? NOT in this example. Women, if you're wanting to get your ex boyfriend back, despair is certainly not the way to go. For whatever reason you have split up, now isn't the time to sound like a demanding, bratty princess!! It's time to toughen up that tiny heart of yours and step back to gain new perspective on what was the reason for the split to begin with.

Take a large deep breath, go and loaf around with some long lost girls. In doing so you may certainly gain your composure and start to become more confident. If your aspirations are how to get your ex boyfriend back, this is the first step, most definitely. Rediscover yourself and become the girl he fell completely in love with at the start.

Once you have found yourself again, pardon him of any past wrongdoings. As you have gained some new viewpoint on the entire relationship, it's time to let your light shine. No guarantees, however there's a wrong way and a right way do it.

If you found yourself very clingy or too possessive, that is the 1st unpleasant habit to smash. You both need independence. Also, absence not only makes the heart grow fonder, but it causes him to miss you. In order to get your ex boyfriend back, start by doing the tiny things that you did when you 2 first started dating. Perhaps there was a little way-with-words strategy that he used. Show him that you recollected, yet do not be too clear or over bearing. This is a slow process.

If there was a favorite place that you two visited in the beginning of the relationship revisit it and let him know you thought about him when you probably did, through e-mail. In the target of attempting to get your ex boyfriend back, it is vital to be yourself.

Vengeance is not a good move, as much as you wish to make a pass at a pal of his. This will not just make him envious, it will push him further away. It's also strongly recommended to just make out like you'd still be happy even though you are not together. - 30535

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What To Do In A Troubled Relationship

By Judith Riley

One of the great things in life is love. When you have another person love you, that experience is wonderful. Or giving the love to someone is just as wonderful. Life is filled with great relationships. But there are just those times when things go wrong.

A great relationship can go sour. When this occurs you start wondering in your mind what just happened. Or worse yet leaves you trying to figure out how to get your ex back. It is in that time when you are trying any way to get your ex back that is most difficult.

There is no feeling worse that trying to get somebody back who just doesn't want anything to do with you. Whether your goal is how to get your ex girlfriend back. It is still the same horrible feeling.

Or if your goal is how to get your ex boyfriend back. It is bad no matter how you slice it.

There is a lot of help out there. You can get relationship advice online. You can get relationship advice from a counselor. Or you are able to get advice from a friend on relationships.

With a lot of people trying to help out with advice who do you turn to. In problems and situations like this best thing to do is to use common sense. You want to find out if it was something that you did that caused it. If you did, then it is easy. Just go and make things right.

Where it makes it harder to swallow is when you can plainly see you did nothing wrong. Then you have to determine what is making your significant other want out of the relationship.

If you can find that out then you will know more. You can tell if it is an issue that is possible for you to fix. I hope it is. As long as you keep lines of communication open it can work. But obviously if there is no communication it will be difficult.

If that is the situation, then you might have to look for help. You may need professional help that can help with communications. This might just be the solution to the problem. - 30535

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3 More Very Good Reasons Why You Should Manage Your Anger

By Broyde McDonald

You always hear about being angry can harm you. However, your anger also affects the people who are around you as well.

Your anger hurts the people around you this is how

They need to keep their distance from you...

There are people who are concerned about you. At least most of you that is.

There is a problem. Believe it or not, there are people who love and would like to be around you. These people will think that you are someone special. However, they stay away to protect themselves from you. The thing is, you are capable of harming them, or you may just be an anti social person. And because of this they stay away for their own safety and emotional strength.

Your anger can cause the people who care about you to feel as if they are dead inside.

When you are mad, you make other people mad

The smart people would stay away from you for one big reason. Your anger without a doubt would make them angry too.

Just like happiness, sadness, and disappointment, anger is just an emotion. And because it is just an emotion, it is easily transferred from one person to another. That is just the way that emotions work, emotions are contagious.

This means that if I know you are angry, and I go around you for just five minutes, I run the risk of having my entire day messed up. How smart a person am I to go where you are, knowing what is likely to happen?

Angry people can destroy a child's entire life

You might know by now that children learn the actions of angry people in a very short amount of time.

As your child watches you and discovers how to act angry the way you do, his life becomes that much more complicated. The reason it is complicated is because he unlearns how to act his behavior will only become worse.

What you are going to get is a little person who becomes an adult that is likely to see every problem that people with uncontrolled anger see. There will be a difference with his problems though. His problems are likely to come while he is still young. Which would also mean that during his adult life his anger would affect him more, more than it did for the person he learned to be angry from.

Stop it don't let it happen anymore. Control your anger. The anger management classes you get here will see you over the hard parts of getting your anger under control. - 30535

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What To Do In A Break Up

By Karen Newsome

One of the most difficult things to have happen in life is to go through a break up. Now being in a relationship that is now over but used to be so wonderful is very difficult. It can be unbearable. It can cause a person to have a hard time functioning if the relationship was serious enough.

So what can someone do after a breakup has occurred. Well the first thing they can do is try to figure out how to get ex back. If the relationship was a serious one at one time, this might be a choice that is very good. But in order to do get their ex back they need to understand why they lost them.

If you are able to figure out what went wrong and caused the breakup, it will help greatly in trying to solve what went wrong. now understanding that alone isn;t going to be enough to solve the problems. But it is something that gives you a start to work with. Take for example, in the case of a male, the problem might have been being unable to listen well. By learning how to listen this could help them in learning how to get ex girlfriend back.

Or if you were the woman in the relationship. If the break up was your fault. Figuring out what the reason was will help greatly in trying to figure out if their is a solution. Take for example if the reason was being too pushy, this may help someone solve that problem. Learning this will greatly help in learning how to get ex boyfriend back.

Now certainly you understand this is just the start of everything. There will be a lot of other problems that may have caused the relationship to break up. Learning how to deal with all those factors will be the key. But the critical thing to remember is to learn what you need to do immediately after a breakup.

Of course both parties have to want to get back together. But that is the key. If you do things right you can actually cause this want to appear. But you have to learn how to do it. There will be a lot of people you can learn from or you can read books on it. But you have to learn. - 30535

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Social Scientists Have Shown Signs Of Being Very Disturbed

By Randy Roedl

A lot of social scientists have grown very disturbed of late, particularly in the area of unfriendly behavior and the increasing requirement for anger issues management classes and counseling sessions. In the modern age, scientists everywhere are endeavoring to find ways to conquer the growing number of fierce flare-ups by 'regular' men and women everywhere, and as such, there's a whole host of information available on the topic.

To sift through this large volume of info, we require a resource - of course there's books, and there are doctors to talk to - but these concerns would be better met by looking on the Internet for facts. By using the web we can discover anything which we require, relating to anger issues management, and actually advice on ways to keep ourselves stress free, which is a thing that the majority of the modern world wants!

It's a fact that anything in its extreme could be very dangerous. Anger as much as love when expressed without restraints can cause a mass of problems. You should be able to learn how to express any feelings of anger you have if you want to preserve the relationships in your life.

Thankfully, anger issues management can help you manage your anger issues effectively. You should be aware of the fact that aquiring angry and frustrated is a choice. You can decide to be as smooth as possible even in the face of the most challenging circumstances. The more determined you are to be less angry and frustrated, the less angry and frustrated you really get at things that would normally annoy you.

Thankfully anger and frustration management and control schemes that work now exist. Learn as much as you can about how to control your anger and frustration and you will become a far healthier individual.

If you are a bit uneasy around anger and frustration management and control classes, you could take an internet based anger and frustration management and control class. Internet Based anger and frustration management and control courses make it simple for you to get help anytime of the day. With internet based anger and frustration management and control classes, you could get as personal as you want and still have your privacy.

Anger management is a field that specialized in helping people to manage their anger. You could learn how to keep the lid on your anger by going to anger management classes or by getting anger management counseling. Anger can be curbed in many ways, the trick is finding out which method takes the wind out of your soil. - 30535

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How To Work And Achieve Distance Learning Education All Together

By Mary Jackson

Distance learning students and those pursuing online degree programs seem to enjoy the best of everything. They get their education without actually needing to attend classes physically, and at the same time are able to keep their jobs and get a paycheck. In fact, this is one of the more prominent distance learning benefits that attract many students to make this their choice of education. In addition to that, distance learning students also gain the advantage of flexibility where they are able to study at their own pace without adhering to class schedules.

However, a distance learning education is not without certain challenges. Traditional students are spurred on by the interaction with others and attending the lectures. Without a lot of discipline and intrinsic motivation, distance learners can easily get sidetracked by life and fail to keep up with the coursework needed to pass the class. Enjoy the benefits, but do not forget the responsibilities.

Therefore, how can distance learning students then overcome this challenge? One habit that a student must adopt is good time management. Everyone has 24 hours and it is up to us to utilize our time in the best way possible. Set up a daily or weekly plan for yourself and ensure that you set aside time for your studies daily. If you have a family, let them know about your schedule so that they know when you should not be disturbed. Divide your time appropriately between your work, your family and your studies. Of course, discipline is important here as any schedule will not do any good if it is not followed.

Staying motivated can be difficult for many who are earnestly striving for a distance learning education. Therefore, it is imperative to stay in contact with fellow students. With the availability of email, instant messages, class online message boards, and online chat, it is a great way to commiserate, encourage, and discuss assignments and projects. Staying in touch with other students taking the class helps in keeping each other active in class and accountable.

In addition to peer contact, rewarding personal education goals is an excellent way to stay motivated and succeed in obtaining a distance learning education. Write particular course milestones on a calendar, and then celebrate the achievement. For example, after turning in a major paper, do something nice for yourself. Then, cross out each accomplishment. With a sense of personal satisfaction, it will keep you motivated to face the next educational hurdle.

Finally, a quiet place to study, away from distractions, is paramount. The television, telephone, and family will be very distracting and take away from quality study. Set times to not be disturbed. If necessary, lock yourself in a quiet room with adequate space to spread out on a table or desk. Sit in a comfortable chair and add any necessary elements to ensure an environment conducive to productive study.

Although distance learning is a great and effective learning concept, much of its effectiveness is dependent on the habits and determination of the individual. The full advantages of distance learning can only be gained through hard work, discipline and determination for success. - 30535

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Mary Jackson writes articles on online distance education and provides information on colleges that offer distance learning education degrees and programs.

Is Astral Projection Something You Should Experiment With?

By Benjamin Parry

Astral projection is something that you already have some awareness of. No doubt you've heard the phrase used in conversation, in a movie or TV program or seen it in a book or magazine. What you might not know is that you can astral project; anyone can, in fact. Youve already done so, though you might not remember it.

In order to determine if you have had an astral projection experience or to begin learning to astral project it is important to understand what astral projection is. Simply put astral projection is when your spirit body leaves your physical body. This is something that happens naturally at night when you are asleep, but it is possible for you to do it consciously and control the journey of your spirit body.

You can journey to any desired location when you astral project. You may even have done this as a child as you went to bed, as you grew into adulthood you just forgot how. No time or distance restrictions apply when astral projecting, which makes it possible to travel virtually anywhere. The astral body is what does the traveling when the person's physical body is sound asleep.

You may be asking at this point what is meant by the astral body? The meaning of the term astral body is the body's invisible duplicate, also called the ethereal body. It is where all of our wishes and feelings are stored in our body. I bet you are wondering how the astral body can leave and then also return to the physical body? There is this silver cord that connects the physical body with the astral body.

The silver cord is attached from the moment that the astral body and the physical body connect. It only detaches at the moment of death when the astral and physical body permanently disconnect from each other. It is this cord that recalls the astral body to the physical body.

Where is it exactly that we go when astral projecting? You visit the astral plane which is to the physical universe as your astral body is to your physical body. There is no universal agreement among the experts about exactly how the astral plane is structured but most agree that the astral plane is an alternate reality which vibrates at a different rate than our own, just slightly out of sync with the universe we inhabit physically and that there are many different levels to the astral plane..

Are there any risks to astral projection? Yes and no. Your physical body is at no risk and nothing can keep your astral body from returning, but there are some dangers. However, the risk is pretty minimal. Just keep a level head and know where youre going beforehand.

Astral projection while you're under the influence of drugs or alcohol can be somewhat risky. When youre not in total control of yourself, your astral body is limited to the lowest and most hazardous levels of the astral plane. If you're not careful, there is a danger of psychological harm.

It is vital that you understand where you desire going and exactly what you are participating in. You need to strive on doing astral projection using your conscious mind. Stay in total control as far as what task that the astral body is performing. Your thoughts and thinking processes are what keeps you in this kind of control.

There are a number of ways to get prepared to do astral projection prior to starting it. Several professionals can be found to assist you in learning various techniques so that you get to the point where you have better control so that you have a gratifying experience, but on this note people usually rather be in their own house while doing astral projection.

There are several books on this subject and you can locate other aids to help you online. One type of aid is that of hypnosis recordings that are created for astral projections to get you into the desired state of mind. This helps you get totally relaxed along with taking you through that various levels. This is often the preferred method over a professional approach, because you can replay the recording as much as you need to get your subconscious mind to get the message about when it is alright to begin to astral project and leave your physical body.

In the field of sound technology there have been many improvements in the area of binaural beats. With this you listen to different sounds in each of your ears. This quickly gets you into the meditative state that is crucial for you to reach to do astral projection with the right results.

Like any ability, even those which were born with it can take some time to master astral projecting. We all have this ability naturally, but you'll have to be patient and keep trying. You might not succeed the first few times, but if you keep trying, you'll learn how to use this inborn capability.

Still in doubt about astral projection? How about an example from your own life? You've had those dreams where youre flying which end with a falling sensation right before you wake up. You werent really dreaming; the sensation of flight was what your astral body feels like as it travels. When you felt you were falling, that was your astral body returning to your physical one. Astral projection is very real and with a little work, you can learn to do it anytime you like. - 30535

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Secrets Of An Amazing New Life Using Cosmic Ordering

By Jean J Moorhouse

Increasingly individuals are learning how vital the process of cosmic ordering is. The only thing that is required here is for you to put your order into the mighty universe and you will receive it! A lot of celebrities have come out to say that they owe success in their lives to this cosmic ordering.

Many people today manage to receive what they think about wanting, but why does this not work for everyone who tries this? Is it possible that the ones that get what they want have some kind of secret knowledge? Is there really such a thing as the cosmic ordering process?

Have you ever objected to someone besides you winning the special prize or getting their well-deserved promotion? By being this way you send out an order to the universe for defeat. Disdain and envy towards the successes that others have, shows that you think that you aren't capable of believing you can succeed, and orders you a dose of poverty and misery.

Think of it as being at a fine restaurant for supper. What would you do if you happened to view someone's luscious meal? Well you would probably just decide to have the same item on the menu for your meal with no anger or envy! You would also be hoping that the other person loved their meal, as much as you wound up loving yours.

Now if you can do that, why can't you also be glad for someone else's good fortune? By delighting in others' successes you show that you know that you can succeed too. But if you get angry, disappointed, or bitter you show the universe that you believe you will fail getting what you want. This is when you do an order to not succeed.

Religious believers have said for many years that the power of a prayer can simply give you what you desire, now we need to look into this type of belief system to see how it goes with cosmic ordering. It has been discovered that quantum physics is so very like the system of belief, and is helping to prove that the religious doctrine that has existed for years really is true.

The mind's dynamic energy makes this all possible. This is not to belittle the beliefs of the religious but to prove their belief system is valid.

If you are attempting this by just doing the positive affirmations, you can run into roadblocks along the way. Your past bad luck or situations can deter this new hopeful attitude you wish to have, and this can do away with all the good headway you were making. You have to understand that while positive thinking is successful, that it also takes awhile to rid yourself of your old negative views.

Are you curious as to what these so-called secrets of cosmic ordering are? You have to kick out all the old thinking out of your mind, before launching your cosmic ordering plan to get your life's dreams. You have to start fresh and understand that it is fine to take all the great wealth and benefits that the universe can bestow on you.

You can receive help through various ways to kick out your old thinking. Similar to the fact that a vacuum gets dirt off the carpet better than your toothbrush would, the more improved modern methods of helping your mind expand, to permit new thinking in, work better than older ways.

There are methods such as binaural frequency waves, subliminal affirmations, and self-hypnosis to assist you with your journey to get the things you want. These modern methods accelerate the process of you doing away with your old way of negative thinking, and this will enable many things to come into your life. With the help of your brain you can learn the secrets to cosmic ordering, now your brain at times wants to keep you from having success, but with practice you don't have to let this happen.

Human beings for the most part are not comfortable when things change. Your brain likes things to stay the same and will argue with you, so you have to be sure about having what you want! This is where you can use the system for cosmic ordering to change things. It is able to change the place you are in right now, due to the fact that the universe thinks you deserve more.

Anyone can have whatever their hearts desire through using the service for cosmic ordering. Just be sure to order what you truly want, and help the order get filled by truly believing it will. - 30535

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Coping With Anger

By Broyde McDonald

You do not want to just cope with anger. That is a bad idea. You want to release it.

When you cope with anger, you have not gotten it completely out of your system. Maybe you frequently think about the things that make you angry and still do not act out, but you can still do better than that. A problem still exists because you are still letting the anger be a part of you.

The only time you should hold in your mind the thoughts of anger is when the people causing it have been forgiven. Once you have forgiven them you will think good thoughts about the people and these thoughts are okay.

Coping with anger is not good for you health.

People are known to have had strokes on the very same day that they become angry. This danger is present for anybody who has a lot of anger inside them.

Not only are having strokes a concern, but there are also the problems of high blood pressure and heart disease that can take place as a direct result of trying to cope rather than getting rid of anger.

Coping with anger is bad for your life.

Count the good decisions that you have made when you were angry. I am sure that you made more bad ones than good ones at this time. The facts are that people do not make good decisions when we are angry.

So when you go around constantly with anger inside you, even if you are coping with it, it can still cloud your judgment and lead you into bad decision making.

What gets your attention?

Watch your actions. If you like the presence of angry people, you are probably someone who is trying to cope with anger. Do you like violent movies and movies showing an angry person getting even? Do you like songs that sound as if they were written by an angry person? If you answer yes to these questions you need to get yourself checked out.

This is what you need to do.

There are long lists of things that you can do to release your anger if you are just coping with it. The list is too long to get into right now.

However, one important thing you can start doing right now is learn how to relax. Anger will bring with it anxiety and tension. You need to be able to recognize these things so that you can get rid of them. As you relax more and more, there will be less anger inside for you to cope with.

Secondly, if you are just coping and you know it, get yourself into a good anger management class. A good class will help you to use the techniques that will help you to become completely free from just coping with anger.

You will be doing better than just coping, you will be in control. - 30535

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Broyde McDonald gives counsel that guides you to success with your anger management goals. Find out more about coping with anger and how to control anger with his popularfree anger management ebook.

How To Stop Worrying And Remain Happy

By John Knight

Worrying is the main problem of many people in this world. Many of them worry everyday or many worry every hour. They try to find the solution but cannot get it. Some people worry about money, some about relationship, some about work, some about job, some about health etc.

Some people are so included in worrying every single day that they cannot imagine living without worrying. You want to stop worrying but cannot. You try a lot but cannot come out of it. This is because you do not know how to come out of it. You do not know the methods.

You cannot define worrying. So it means it is just wastage of time. Worrying will make you feel more worry. When you worry more and more negative thoughts come to your mind which in turn takes the form of negative and suicide feelings. And finally it takes the form of depression or similar disease. You will start feeling anxious and miserable. So we will discuss some of the solutions for worrying.

When you start worrying, start repeating one thing that is worrying is just a total wastage of time and will not give any final solution. When you finally realize it the next steps will become very easy. While worrying you cannot plan your future. But instead of worrying if you start working on the problem and make step by step plans then you will definitely end up with good future. If you will not worry then you will make your plans easily and in less time.

There is a saying of Sri Sri Ravi Shankar Ji, cut the past, shut the future, live in present. Stop worrying about the future and just do right things in present. If you will live in a planned way in present then your future will be also good and there is no need to worry. The most important thing is do exercise and yoga daily. This will give your mind a good relaxation. Meditation is also a very good thing. Understand the benefits of stop worrying.

You need to just sit and think of solving the problem before worst things can happen to you. This will give you a lot of relief as you will see that nothing much worse will happen. You will see the problem that you are thinking of is not a big problem and you will be able to find the solutions easily.

Now suppose you are worried about your future that is you do not save anything from your present salary. So you are worried and worried and do not find the solution. In this case what you should do is instead of worrying think how you can save. Make a diary every day about how much you spent. After some days see what you should skip to save money and what is very important. This will definitely make a big difference in your life.

People worry about one thing or the other but if you follow some things that are mentioned in this article, you will definitely get to know that the problem is seriously nothing. - 30535

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You should know how to overcoming panic attacks when such feelings occur. This is because you are the only person who can help yourself when this arises. You may want to read more about it. Or you can try cure panic attacks.

Are You Searching For The Secret Of Abundance?

By Mickie Lake

Many individuals all over the world are searching for the means of changing their life. They are searching for the missing secret to having a wonderful life. They consider once they have this it will give them all they ever wanted. Many of them will spend countless years trying to find it. You are given that secret right now. Your search is finally over. The desire for it consumed your mind and inspired you to keep searching for it and now the universe is offering it to you.

First you must understand one thing, an abundant life is not just a life filled with a lot of money. Living an abundant life means that you are fulfilled in the three sections of life, Money, Health and Relationships. While there are many that would disagree and they may even try to tell you that the key to living an abundant life is an overflowing amount of money, they are wrong.

Consider if you had millions of dollars, even more than you would ever be able to spend, but you are in poor heath with only days to live, perhaps spending your days staring at the ceiling, then what good is money to you. If you are healthy yet alone with no one to share your life with, what good, is health to you? All three aspects are essential to live an abundant life.

You need the secret that unlocks abundance so that you are healthy, you have meaningful relationships and you have the money you require. The real secret of abundance is your thoughts and emotions. It is that simple, since it is your thoughts and emotions that create your life. They have the power to influence what you want in life as well as keep you held in your current live.

There are many people that are reading this right now that will shake their heads and say that you are being lied to. The secret to abundance is not your thoughts or your emotions, then everyone would have the life they wanted! Guess what, they are absolutely right. Each and every person in this world has the power to have an abundant life. Why then don't they?

The list of reasons could be rather long, but they all stem from one fundamental issue. People don't want to live a life of abundance. It is far easier to live the way they are and complain about it. Do you think that Donald Trump has spent one day in his life feeling sorry for himself? Do you think that Bill Gates doubted that he would be a millionaire? The answer is no. No they didn't, haven't and won't. They have had the mindset from the beginning that they would be successful, that they would be the masters of their own lives that they would live a life of abundance.

The fact that the secret is simple shouldn't be a reason for you to not believe it. Look around, each and every thing you see started off as a thought a thought that someone had that they manifested into reality. The space shuttle, the pen you write with, the car you drive, the seat belt in that car, the window in your home, the toy that you child is playing with they all started off as a thought.

What does this mean to you? It means that starting right now you can create the life you want. What you need to do is decide what it is you want. Be precise, you may even want to write it down. Once you have decide what it is you want, you need to look around your life and be thankful for what you have. It may not be ideal or exactly what you want, but if you can't appreciate the things you have then you are never going to have anything better.

Determine what you really want and then permit that thought to overcome you as it burns deeply in your heart, soul and mind. Become excited about it becoming a reality and then allow your emotions to empower that thought. Send an overwhelming message into the universe. You have to believe in what you want and that it is coming to you. While this is happening, you have to learn and do what you need to do to make it become a reality.

The hidden secret of abundance is locked in your head between your ears. It is your brain, your thoughts and your emotions. Change the way you think and you will change the life you are living. - 30535

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Raising Capital for Your Company? Beware of the Hard Sell Consulting Firm

By James Scott

Private Placement Memorandum authoring and the process of taking one's company public are services that require extensive experience and the ability to look at a deal objectively and peripherally to evaluate all the angles to enhance the ability of the client to achieve funding in a timely manner.

Many times, when I'm hired to structure a company before funding, they will be under the impression that my evaluation is a mere formality and they are ready to go. Often I'm the bearer of bad news when I have to break it to the client that their company has more holes than Swiss cheese and 30 to 60 days away from starting the fund raising process.

They will often get a second and then third opinion and usually run into the same thing before they eventually find their way back to our firm. As they call around to consulting firms they perpetually experience the 'hard sell' by firms who 'need' the business because they lack the rewards and referrals that come with cultivating each client relationship because they take on and spit out deals so fast they hardly remember their client's name during the transaction.

This mentality dominates the larger firms because of their gargantuan overhead while the boutique firms can take a more personal approach because they have a steady flow of business and referrals because they are not stressed about bringing in the next big deal so they can meet payroll and keep their lights on. The smaller companies that focus on turnaround consulting, private placement memorandum authoring, top tier business plan writing and taking companies public usually take a one on one approach to the consulting process and will rarely pressure clients to sign on because their phone is ringing off the hook with previous clients who want to hire them for the next stage in the evolution of their company's growth.

This business is all about relationships. Ditch the consultant that applies the high pressure sales tactics and seek out the smaller, more personalized groups that don't 'need' your business but will cultivate and value it. - 30535

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Today's Teens Need Leadership Skills

By Lonnie Lorenz

More than ever before we need leaders. Those who attend Overnight Summer Camps tend to teach skills like flexibility along with problem solving. Living with those who are not the same as yourself and are from different parts of the country or world promotes an acceptance of diversity. Those who send their children to Overnight Summer Camps have long been aware that camps promote a childs personal growth and development. Many of these traits include: independence, responsibility, cooperation, teamwork and a willingness to try new concerns.

As summer camp director since 1996 we know that the best directors are intentional in using their camps resources to promote specific aspects of positive personal development . It is because of this intentionality that we as camp professionals can see and measure how campers are growing and developing as individuals during their stay at camp.

We pride ourselves on our one on one work with camp staff to ensure that they are aware that they not only need to keep safe but their job is to to encourage and assist campers in their own personal development and growth. Our daily meetings with staff is a time to check in and see how each camper is doing with the parents directives as well as the camps goals. We see ourselves as team mates with the parents of our campers.

For our older teens we give them an opportunity to guide campers as well. This counselor in training program is designed to help older teen engage in leadership and decision-making within their camp groups and for the camp as a whole. Daily they have classes that teach leadership skills as well as child development. Then they get to get out and give it a whack and see it really works for them. For some of these teen they just want a continuation of their own camp days but for others they see how this will benefit them in the real world and help them become better leaders in the future.

Camp is a place that requires boat loads of energy and many find it difficult too give both physically and emotionally all the time. Participating enthusiastically in all activities helps to creates a contagious atmosphere that makes all of a camp fun. Leaders Know how to motivate and encourage, two things taught at summer camp.

Role modeling and mentoring is what we all do at camp. Staff to campers and older campers to younger campers. For many, this opportunity to engage with others and realize the natural power over others. The skills learned of group management, gaining respect and for teaching children new skills carry with these young children for years to come.

Overnight Summer Camp is full of fun! But, what makes camp so special is it provides the opportunity for kids, teens and young adults to practice and learn their leadership skills in a loving and supporting environment.

To learn more about finding the right Summer Camp, visit Summer Camp Advice a free website with loads of camp information. - 30535

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About the authors: Jeff and Lonnie Lorenz are the directors of Swift Nature Camp is a non-competitive, Minnesota Summer Camp that offers a traditional camp programs for Boy and Girls. Campers enjoy Teen Adventure Camp trips along with in camp activities like Scuba, Sailing, Skiing and more.

What Causes Panic Attacks?

By Greg Anderson

The exact reasons that people suffer from panic attacks is, in large part, not clear at this time. Even though it does appear that there might be some situations and factors which can cause a person to be predisposed toward panic attacks, there is not one certain factor that is always there.

The top scientific schools of thought today are theorizing that panic attacks could be caused by the improper arousal of the brain neurotransmitters that cause the fight or flight syndrome. Even though it is fairly certain that the fight or flight response is initiated somehow, it is still not known how or why. In fact, being scared of having more panic attacks may even make this worse and cause the response to be triggered even more often.

We do not really know exactly what causes panic attacks, but we are aware of certain factors that cause people to possibly be predisposed towards having them. It is common to see panic attacks run in families, so apparently heredity may be a factor. Other factors that are possible causes of panic attacks are stress related. Such factors include major life events such as: New job, getting married, getting divorced, having children, being fired from a job, or buying a house.

Some specific medical problems, and medications, may be causative factors in panic attacks. Should you start to suffer from panic attacks, especially if you have never had them, any potential medical causes need to be investigated prior to treatment.

The medical problems that might be related to panic attacks include the following: Mitral valve prolapse, hyperthyroidism, hypoglycemia, stimulant use, and withdrawal from medication.

If your panic attacks are caused by medical issues which can be easily controlled, your physician will usually choose to make some changes to your medication or ask you to make lifestyle changes to prevent panic attacks from happening again.

For the type of panic attacks that are not rooted in medical problems, which are in fact the majority of panic attacks, it will take an aggressive approach. A program that has a good psychologically based method of stopping panic attacks, such as Panic Away, will usually be the best way to treat panic attacks. Methods like this one use safe and effective techniques to use the tool of your own brain, and it is used in a way that put you in total control.

Because this program works only on the specific brain areas that cause panic attacks, you are able to be in control and make certain you don't have to deal with unexpected attacks any more. - 30535

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Those who endure panic disorder say that they would go to nearly any length to prevent having attacks. The stumbling block is that they really don't know what to do to stop them. Panic attacks may not cause long term physical damage, but the emotional damage can be quite severe. Learn more about steps you can take to stop severe anxiety.

8 Proven Tips To Improve Your Memory Today

By Steven Manner

Find out how to improve your memory and your life will become a lot easier. You can easily increase your memory and boost your brain power. There are a few steps you should follow in order to attain the memory you want.

If you are trying to study for an exam try to have a good sleep every night. While you sleep your brain cells are recovering and they are working to arrange the new information. This is a good reason to repeat you lesson once or twice before going to bed. You will be surprised to see in the morning how good you remember.

Some students prefer to study during the night but this is not recommendable. All the work you memorized will be lost in a short time. Your body needs a lot of rest, so does your brain.

Try to write on a piece of paper everything you need to remember in that week. Writing is one of the best tips for improving your memory. The act of writing the information helps to reinforce the memory of it. You'll succeed to memorize quicker by concentrating only to what you're writing.

Remember that you need to concentrate on what you are studying. You can study only for 30 minutes but make sure that during that time you will not think at anything else. Don't stop to watch TV or to talk on the phone.

Read aloud the lesson you wish to learn. This way your brain will better retain the information. When you are doing this exercise make sure that you are alone in the room. You can't listen to music or have the TV on during this time.

When you try to learn a new road you should look around. You see some interesting shops or buildings. Next time you will remember the road because of those buildings. Your visual memory is the most powerful. You can use visual memory for almost anything.

To improve your memory you could try to relate the new information to things you already know. For example when you are studying a lesson try to find a connection with another lesson that you know already. This will help you remember everything a lot easier.

With a positive attitude and a lot of concentration you can improve your memory. Try to focus on the things you wish to learn. Use all your senses to remember things. - 30535

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Steps To Get Your Ex Back After he Has Rebounded!

By Joe Sharp

Though you thought you were dealt the harshest blow when the love of your life shocked you by breaking up with you, you've latterly learned that he is now seeing somebody else! You ask yourself how this is possible after all that you shared. Indeed you start interrogating what it was that you shared if your ex can so quickly rebound.

When folk rebound it is down to the fact he or she has simply taken the feelings they'd or still have for you and transferred them to some other person. Those feelings of love are real ; they're just directed at the incorrect person. The reason folk regularly rebound is perhaps because it's simpler to transfer feelings rather than deal with the loss due to the unexpected void in their lives.

There's an upside to this. Rebounds don't sometimes last. That is, if you follow my recommendation, you've got a good shot of getting your ex back ; if you do not, you risk the rebound developing into a powerful bond. At the moment, the person that's in the relationship with your ex gets the best of both worlds, all of the feelings of love thrown at her without the commitment and work it took you to get there.

To get your ex back, step 1 is to implement the no contact rule. There's truly no other way around this. This implies exactly as it sounds, no contact. Don't call to let your ex know you have their CD, don't call because you forgot to take his or her name off the joint checking account and you feel as though you need to tell him or her, just do it. It implies no contact.

It's best to move on with your life ; whether or not this means to get a pastime, go back to college, whatever it implies, it implies move on . If your ex calls to "dump" on you about issues she has with the rebound, offer to listen and your regrets that there are issues, but say nothing else. Express your hope that things work out and mean it. Above all, you would like your ex to be content, even if it's's not with you. Whatever you do, don't express anything other than support. - 30535

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Holistic Therapy for Couples - Creating Balance In Your Life And Relationship

By Stephen Daniels

Many couples who experience a bump in the road in their relationship turn to counseling for help. Some people do not realize the differences between holistic counseling and traditional counseling when they are trying to work out relationship issues.

Traditional counseling often places its focus on the issues the couple brings to the session to discuss, whether they are subjects of frequent arguments, one partner's hurt feelings, or intimacy issues. While working on these surface issues is sometimes useful, this approach tends to be little more than a band-aid to cover only visible wounds while ignoring the imbalance between the partners that is the underlying cause of these surface problems.

A couple's individual disagreements and communication problems could be symptoms of a much greater issue - one that will never be addressed by traditional counseling. In most cases, when two people are in need of counseling, both the individuals and the couple as a unit are out of balance and need a more holistic approach to help them heal themselves and their relationship.

Holistic Counseling is entirely focused on helping partners reclaim that balance and wellness for themselves and for their lives together. A balanced partnership is one founded upon feelings of love, trust, intimacy, and joy. As such, all holistic therapy will focus on enhancing these aspects of the bond.

The holistic approach is best for two people who feel like their relationship is out of balance, particularly if they believe that their disagreements are a symptom of a larger issue. Relationships lacking in joy, intimacy, or positive communication can benefit from this method. Through holistic therapy, partners can explore these issues and learn new ways of thinking about their bond with one another.

Holistic therapy may particularly appeal to people who find a traditional therapist's approach off-putting. Some participants in typical therapy sessions feel like they are being involved in a moderated debate; others even think their partner and the therapist are ganging up on them.

Another big plus of holistic counseling is that it is far less likely than traditional counseling to result in medication being given to one or both parties. Antidepressants, anti-anxiety drugs, and sleeping pills are often prescribed by traditional counselors. Sometimes, these drugs serve only to increase relationship issues problems. They can cause sexual problems or even change an individual's personality to some degree. This can cause yet another rift in an already fragile partnership. While drugs are not inappropriate for every case, many modern practitioners use medication as a first line of defense rather than a final resort. There is no doubt that swallowing a pill is easier than changing a couple's worldview or the way that they work with one another.

Holistic therapy is generally not a quick fix for couples' problems. However, it will reach down to the roots of the bond to improve the relationship as a whole as well as both individuals. It is a method created for partners who desire true balance in their lives, both together and separately. - 30535

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Using Marriage Counseling When Marriages Are In Trouble

By John Bryan

Marriage and relationships in general is one of the best things we can experience in life. But sometimes those relationships can go bad and what was once a great experience can be terrible.

It is very sad to see marriages go just this way. But there is always a better way to fix troubled relationships. In this article we are going to look at how marriage counseling can help save marriages.

It is one of the most private things in the world to happen and that is the very first thing to realize when a couple fights. So it is only natural to want outside help. But when something as significant as a marriage is on the line then you absolutely need to get that outside help. Since often times it is the existence of outside help that can really point out the real conflicts and help resolve them. That is one of the major benefits my clients of my marriage therapist service.

Another way that marriage counseling can really help in a bad relationship is communication. A very good or seasoned counselor can surely help a couple who are having a really hard time communicating learn how to communicate. Because often times I have found in my family therapist service that is was the breakdown in communication. That breakdown is definitely what made the problem appear worse than it needed to be. Well basically, in that area, counseling would be able to help.

Finally a really good counselor can help the couple work towards resolving the existing differences. Because a lot of times I have found in my marriage counseling practice that couples didn't want to resolve the relationship. Well that is really the big problem since when they are not willing to work it out, then nothing will be fixed absolutely. A really good counselor can surely help a couple get on that road to fixing it.

so hopefully you can see there are many advantages to getting a couple to resolve their differences. They just have to be willing to carefully seek help just before anything can be fixed. - 30535

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More Spice in Your Love Life

By Larry Moon

One would ask what went wrong in different relationships for a break up to happen, especially if both mutually understand each other's circumstances. Not all end up tragically and are still able to salvage of what is left of the relationship. But at some point, how can one save a damaged relationship?

It is common sense that in order for one to be able to approach a problem, a person should initially know the root of the problem. It means analyzing the situation and everything about it so that he or she can generate a resolution.

Although this is not perfect and needs to be tested, it is still better than doing nothing. It needs basic knowledge in coping with a relationship and it is the same as how scientist resolve all problems. How to apply this same concept in different scenarios?

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First of all, one should have the correct understanding of things to be able to know the main issue so that it can be easily resolved through problem identification. As other people say, you can not heal an invisible wound.

With any break up scenario, one should not have the misconception that the problem is how to get back the ex but rather, what went wrong that made the other go astray in the first place? By having this kind of mindset, the person working hard to win back an ex can have a clearer concept of things because in order to be successful, it all depends on the factors why the partner leaves.

One may understand that even if the relationship seems alright, it could be decaying in the inside possibly due to lack of time. It is of utmost importance for a relationship to have a constant communication between lovers, regardless of the circumstances. He or she must make an effort about having quality time to be with their partners without compromising each other's jobs.

In addition to that, it doesn't mean that when there are no arguments between, it is likely that one or both people are not properly addressing apparent issues. It may be lack of quality time so understand that it is helpful to spend ample time with each other to have a happy and healthy relationship. This is because by staying together, both parties can easily address the needs and wants of each other.

The above concept does not limit itself to mere relationships between a boy and a girl but rather, is also applicable to a family and even the whole community. But setting family and community aside, by not being able to take care of the needs, it will cause the person deprived of the need to hunger for it, and ultimately, to search for it. - 30535

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Are Panic Attacks A Severe Medical Issue?

By Greg Anderson

Panic attacks are indeed a severe medical issue and they need to be treated as they only increase over time.

Panic attacks are so severe that many who suffer them think they are having a heart attack or even dying. Physical pain can be really awful, and even the discomfort caused by panic attacks can be hard to bear.

The abdominal pain that is typically seen with panic attacks can be very painful, and the lack of air that some people have make the lungs burn miserably. Worse yet can be the psychological effects: feelings of the world ending, feelings of dying, or going insane, and of being totally out of control are all typical.

Most people who suffer from panic attacks say that they would go to nearly any length to avoid having the attacks happen, but they simply do not know how to prevent them. Panic attacks may not cause major long term physical damage, but the mental and emotional damage can be quite severe.

It is actually quite common for the physical effects of panic attacks to be so severe that patients will end up in hospital emergency rooms or at urgent care centers, fearing they are going into cardiac arrest, having a severe asthma attack, or having a nervous breakdown.

Unfortunately, panic attacks are not always taken seriously in an emergency setting. Doctors sometimes, upon realizing a panic attack is the problem, will just send the patient home with an attitude of "you overreacted".

Panic attacks are a very serious medical problem and they need to be regarded as such. Unlike other medical problems, such as an easily treated virus or illness, panic attacks require an approach that treats the problem, and prevents it from continually occurring. Panic attacks need to be not just managed, but prevented. Panic attacks are a medical problem that can be quite serious and accelerate until they are nearly out of control, so it is important that patients and doctors alike treat them that way.

Programs such as Panic Away prevent panic attacks. Since this program's primary aim is to retrain the brain so that it is not allowing the "fight or flight" response to occur at all the wrong times, Panic Away can not just teach you how to deal with panic attacks when they happen, but to stop them from plaguing you ever again. - 30535

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The Power Of Knowing About Your Past Life

By Susan M Mann

The idea of reincarnation; that you had a past life, or several - is an ancient one, and one that is found on every corner of the earth: Japanese, Australian aborigines, Africans, modern Wiccans and many other New Age religions, all believe that you have past lives, and that your past lives influence who and what you are today.

What you are now and who you believed you are now is an influence of your past life including your health, your mental well being, and your social interactions are all influenced by your past life. This is why it is important to know yourself, who you are and what you are in the past, to be able to make yourself better and stronger in this current life.

How do you know if you have a past life? You may never know, however, in many cases disturbing memories or dreams that do not belong to you may visit you while you are awake. Reincarnation is a very popular belief among many individuals. However, when doing the math, it makes a great deal of sense that there are some new souls. Other indications include:

* When you saw or learned about a particular culture or arts, you already had a deep connection or attraction to that thing. Based on reincarnation idea, this may be because you were from that region or from that era. To be fully sure of this, you may want to learn some more culture or arts and discover your reactions and the effect it gives you; it may be linked to your origin in your past life.

* Unusually strong emotions concerning a historical incident, for example, may cause you to become misty eyed, such as looking at Washington Crossing the Delaware but not at any other revolutionary art, may indicate that you were involved in such a past life incident.

* Allergies or irrational fears that are not triggered by a childhood incident may be an indicator. There are particular physical and psychological issues may indicate a past life experience.

This is by no means an exhaustive list, and just the fact that you have one of these indicators does not mean you are remembering a past life. Look for patterns in your life, ranges of things that attract you for no good reason, and you may start to home in on similarities that will help you piece together an idea of what your past life or lives may have been.

Self-hypnosis can help you to access the past life you once had. If you can not do it, ask for somebody to help you through hypnosis. Most of the therapists who do past life regression are specialists as well in helping people know their past life. They usually do it by using a form of deep hypnotic procedure.

When you made decision regarding this, go for the process that gives you a deep relaxation method. This is the first technique that you should get before the therapist proceed to the past life regression.

There is nothing significant to worry over in the terms of safety, since what should happen is that you are able to experience a past life just as vividly as if you were actually going back in time. It may not be as intense as described here; however, you should be able to experience feelings and shadow of your past life.

Pleasant memories trigger pleasant feeling; while past life memories that are bad generally trigger the same type of feelings, such as having a bad dream. You wake up feeling uncomfortable, similar to having a nightmare. Keep in mind, however that if there are any bad memories, they are an essential aspect of the past life regression experience.

What is important is remembering a past life. Once you remember, you are able to move on in this life. Problems occur when there is subconscious suppression of these memories. Acknowledging and accepting what happened in the past can aid you, while experiencing you present life with an entirely different point of view.

The philosophy of Karma says that when we are good examples in one life, while being committed to positive and kindly acts offer us good karma. As a result, for good, we receive good vibrations in our future lives, unless we become bad examples. If this happen, then our personal Karma changes and negative vibrations follow us throughout our future lives, until we suffer from them and then commit to becoming a good example in our own lifetime.

Not all people believe this idea because they thought that if someone was bad in the past life, there is no reason for him to suffer from the bad karma that might be due him in his past life. But the truth is, every one is entitled to have a new life ahead and every life is a chance to have a better life by choosing to do right in the current life. - 30535

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Experiencing The Second Magic of Love

By Carl Lewis

Falling in love is a natural process and there are so many reasons why someone start loving the opposite sex. There are many degree of attraction and as the feelings are recognized, two individual can start the relationship.

But for some reasons, some relationship ends easily. Even if partners can control what's happening, there are still factors that can affect it. And with the unresolved issues, break up happens.

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It is really possible to fall out of love and when relationship ends, it may be difficult to get over it. When there are mutual understanding, it is easier to begin all over again and heal the wounds. But if the love has faded away, it can be very challenging.

Is it possible to get your ex back? Can someone restore the old relationship? The first answer is yes but the rest depends on you. There are more things that you can do to bring the spark back. Also, you can seek lots of professional advices around you.

Winning your ex-lover back can impose challenges because you have to exert effort to do so. Various scenarios should also be addressed differently. Husband and wife relationship requires a different technique and not the same as the boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.

You must remember several things as you cope with the challenges after break up. To begin with, be strong and keep the courage when doing things to win your ex back.

If you are still healing your broken heart, minimize contact with your ex so that you can think clearly or your plans with him. It would be better to plan ahead about the things you wish to do with the current situation. You can not change the past but you can improve the future so focus on it.

You must be flexible and do your best if you wan to win your ex back. Be sure to allot ample of time for yourself and your ex lover. To avoid conflicts with your plan, make sure to set the correct schedule. To achieve good results, plan you actions carefully to restore the relationship.

Most of all, one must be realistic. Being positive is a good start but doing unimaginable things will not get you any where. You and your ex are of equal standing and you don't have to worship him or her. Enough respect will do so do your best to achieve your dreams with him or her. - 30535

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