Getting Your Ex Back - Tips For Reconstructing Contact

By Bernard Phelps

Chances are you have heard the tip that it's never a brilliant idea to swamp your ex with communication shortly after a break. A bit of space and time is always suggested irrespective of whether or not you would like to get your ex back at last, but there does come a time in your scheme for getting him or her back where you are going to have to make contact again...but how? That is what I'm here to help you with!

Re-establishing contact with an ex should only be done after you've both had some space and time away from one another, and you used that isolation from your ex to do some real work on getting your things straight. Even once that's all good and you are prepared to contact your ex again, you need to go about it correctly.

A "heavy" contact full of feelings and talk about getting back together is a really bad idea at this stage. You are doubtless still injuring from the breakup, and likely so too is your ex...and the 1st impulse you will give your ex by hammering him or her with this sort of talk is anxiety or panic. You could extraordinarily well cause yourself to lose your ex for good!

Because of this, getting back in contact with your ex should be a "light" contact without any overwhelming "relationship talk." Your first communication should be an ice-breaker, not a relationship-fixer. It is a slow process to rebuild a relationship, and you want to acknowledge that and take it easy. The most counseled avenues of a contact re-initiation are a quick email, text message, or phone call. Meeting in the flesh is mostly a bit too forward for such a fragile situation.

Remember that you don't want to scare your ex away with "touchy-feel talk," so keep it friendly. Ask how they have been doing, and essentially make your presence and willingness to associate with them known. You are reconstructing from the bottom up, starting at comradeship and working from there. Pushing the gas too fast...well, I suspect I have made it obvious what that might do.

If all goes well with the primary contact, the way is open to keep going on a gentle incline. Eventually the time should come when you are spending time together again, and that is where you can shine as a new and enhanced you. After you get the door open, it is up to you how you would like to walk through it. - 30535

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Cosmic Ordering And Its Effect On Your Life

By Samantha Hill

More and more people are looking for ways to enjoy their lives and fulfill their desires these days. They are trying to accomplish their goals and also satisfy their materialistic and other aspirations. In today's world there are more and more ways of getting the kind of life you want but nothing is as good as cosmic ordering.

Cosmic ordering can be simply described as a different kind of spiritual practice which helps you to attain all that you want from the universe. It can be likened to an ordering service where you order your heart's desire and you will get it. However, though this is a spiritual process, you don't need to be a saint or be a complete philanthropist or something as good as that to use it. Goodness does count and help. However this method works as well for regular people.

When you are able to spiritually manifest your goals and dreams, then it's known as cosmic ordering. All you need to do is ask for what you want from the universe or just state your ambition. It can be something as easy as getting a new pen to some thing as big as wanting to be a millionaire. You don't have to know how it will happen, whether it will happen by changing your life or conditions.

Dr. Deepak Chopra and Dr. Wayne Dyer believe that to manifest your order with the universe, you need to be in something known as the 'field of intent'. This is nothing but an invisible energy field which aids and catalyses the connection between the spirit and the universe and helps in manifesting our desires.

Most of us have done this before though unconsciously and not realized it. There may have been a time when you desired something badly or really wanted something and then you got what you wanted. You may have labeled it as a coincidence but it was actually the cosmos fulfilling your order.

Power of intention is vital to cosmic ordering since intention is nothing but an amalgamation of our innermost faith and desires. We need to have complete conviction that we deserve what we want and really want it. This is the only way to make cosmic ordering work.

There are many people who may say that they want a new house or a coveted promotion or job. However, deep inside consciously or subconsciously they may not believe that they worked hard to get their wishes or that they deserved it. For this to work, you need to believe that you deserve what you are asking for.

This process of cosmic ordering is one of the simplest and the easiest to do and it can really give you a better life. The only downside is that you need to use it well and for manifesting positive things. If you believe that you will just get negative then it will work in the way you think and you may get negative things.

Hence, if you think your boss will fire you and keep thinking that, then chances are that it will happen. Therefore, you need to just think, talk and believe that you will get all the positive things that you desire and want.

Many people who have been trapped in bad conditions and think that they don't deserve happiness or the good things of life don't really realize the truth and hence it is almost next to impossible for them to learn to manifest the good things.

Your subconscious mind can also become your biggest enemy and hindrance in manifesting the things that you desire because the beliefs fed into it for years may not allow it to believe in the cosmic ordering service.

Communication with the subconscious mind can be accomplished by self hypnosis, meditation and simple affirmations. It's not tough at all!

People around the world have used cosmic ordering to make their life more joyful and fun. So, you too order your heart's desires and have a great life which is full of love and happiness. - 30535

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Motorcycle Radio Show

By L.J. James

I have felt and been a part of Biker Brotherhood almost all of my life. Growing up around My Father (Freelance Author on the Biker Lifestyle Pappy) and my Uncle Trey, I was taught what Biker Brotherhood was about from a very young age. As I grew up I heard many stories about the fun had at Parties, Runs and Rallies.

I also heard about protests (Mostly Helmet) I heard how Bikers were the last of the true Americans. I was taught Bikers believe in Freedom and are willing to fight for it at all costs! As I got older I attended many events and I rode allot.

I became active in Motorcycle Rights groups (mostly ABATE of NY) and I did my part to protect and promote the Biker Lifestyle, I wrote many articles in Biker Magazines and I DJed and MCed many Bike events helping to spread the word of Biker Rights.

In March of 2005 I became a Member of the Mortal Skulls MC and not long after I felt what it meant to be a part of a Motorcycle Club Brotherhood. I also got to know and learn from many members of other MC's. The more I learned and the better I got to know these Men (the world referred to as 1%ers and Outlaws) the more I realized most of these people were the best people in the world, These are the Men who made and continue to make America great! I had heard many negative things about Motorcycle Clubs over the years and the more I was grew apart of the MC life the more I realized something needed to be done.

So my focus shifted from covering parties in Magazines to writing about true Biker Brotherhood. I realized one of the things negatively effecting the Motorcycle World is no one was teaching the younger generation of Motorcycle riders what it really means to be a Biker. The rules and codes of the road where all being lost, TV Show and Docudramas where teaching a Biker History that had no basis in reality. To this day I continue look up and write down as much truth of the history of Motorcycles and the Motorcycle Club world as I can.

I was getting the word out but I wanted a way to be able to speak to Bikers so they could hear my words and feel them expressed as they came from my heart! I knew I wanted to do some kind of Biker Talk Radio Show to help get the message out there. Every radio station I spoke with was either not interested or wanted some huge amount of money up front .

One day I learned about internet Radio! I learned I could do a live show that could be heard world wide on every computer and also all the shows would be archived so they could be heard anytime from the beginning just by clicking on them. I soon started a weekly show about a half hour long each Wednesday coming up with the name "The Biker Lowdown" The show started with just me talking to people about different things going on in the Motorcycle World.

Not long after the show started I was getting weekly calls from this Guy Chuck who called himself the Alpha Biker, Checking his webpage out I quickly learned both me and Chuck were cut from the same cloth and He became the Co-host of the Biker Lowdown.

Soon after thanks to the on air Chemistry and the great radio banter between me and Chuck the show started taking off. My good friend Bjorn took over as the online webmaster creating a webpage all could be proud of.

Hammerin Hank soon joined the Biker Lowdown clan as our Research Reporter. Things just kept getting better for the show.We started getting many great guests and even a few really big names of the Motorcycle world.

When Brenda Fox came on the show one night for an interview to talk about the world of Women's Motorcycling, some where about five Minutes into the interview We all just knew We had a new member of the Biker Lowdown Family! I look forward to seeing what the Future brings for the Biker Lowdown Radio Show,

But for now I am Your Bro LJ James and I will see you on the Road!!!

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Happiness, Success And Law Of Attraction

By Simon Ward

Happiness and Law of Attraction in fact have a strong correlation with each other. If you haven't heard of the Law of Attraction, no problem. It's very easy to understand, actually. It's quite similar to positive thinking, and basically embodies the idea that if you want a positive life, your thoughts must be positive, too. In turn, this can attract all things related to happiness and wealth into your life.

The Law of Attraction isn't a new concept and in fact has been around for a long, long time. It really works. When you think positive thoughts, the Law of Attraction isn't far behind. Think about this for a minute. Do you know someone who seems to 'have it all,' and is relaxed, carefree, and comfortable in his or her own skin? That's because they live by the adage that positive thoughts mean positive things. In other words, if you think negative thoughts, that's what you're going to attract. If you think positive thoughts, that's also what you're going to attract.

Your thoughts are made up of energies, which is also what you are. If you are thinking positive thoughts, then you are made up of positive energy and abundance in your life will follow.

The Law of Attraction and happiness work together. So even though it might seem difficult, start to tell yourself that you are wonderful, great, beautiful, wealthy, and so on. Even if you don't feel like it, do it all day long. These types of positive affirmations can really help you deal with the current vagaries of life and get through them successfully.

Some examples of positive affirmations include: 'I am friendly and love people, and they love me back;' 'I am grateful, and find MORE reasons to be grateful everyday;' or 'Opportunities are endless and I have unlimited choice in the world.' Choose several affirmations to use throughout the day, every day.

Either way, it's especially important to do this even when you don't feel like it. If you become discouraged, frustrated, sad or angry, it's even more important to focus on the positive. It's truly important to address and dispense with negative beliefs and thought processes if you want a truly happy and fulfilling life.

In fact, your mind is your only to limitation to having the life you want. Do you think you can't live a life that's happy and abundant? Why not? Other people have certainly done it. Dwelling on the negative is only going to get you more negative, so don't do that.

In addition, learn to 'go with the flow.' That's important because positive energy flows, and if you know this, it will flow in your life in one way or another.

Once you begin to see that the Law of Attraction and happiness are interconnected, you'll see that things will begin to right themselves in your life.

If you're feeling sad or depressed, that negativity will drive happiness away from you. And, if you dwell on it, you may end up wallowing in it by watching a depressing movie, hanging out with negative friends, and so on. If you stay in this state long enough, you're going to build your life around negative circumstances without even realizing you're doing so.

The wonderful thing is that you can remove bad luck from your life by using positive affirmations and law of attraction techniques. The worst thing you can do is give up. Continue to reassure yourself that you are the happiest person alive and watch the opportunities come pouring in! - 30535

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How It Is Possible To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - Super Easy Tips

By Clint Dean

Did your ex girlfriend split with you and now you need to understand how to get your ex girlfriend back?

I went thru the same not to long ago...

Fortunate for you I have some awesome tips for you to use to get your ex back swiftly. These are the same tips I used to get my ex girlfriend back, so trust me they work!

First Things you shouldn't Do...

Never blame her for anything she may have done to you. Take some responsibility for your actions and focus on areas where you can approve. Was it something similar to you where straightforward to anger or you couldn't control your temper? It might be a smart idea to sign up for some classes to control this.

Some other things You Must Do

Work out why you fellows broke up in the first place. You must get to the "root cause" so you can make a plan of action to correct it. Once you correct the cause why you and your ex split up you are on the right path to being brought back together with your ex girlfriend. This is a good way on how it is possible to get your ex girlfriend back.

Be yourself and stay devoted to her : It is pretty much the popular thing to try to make your ex jealous. The reality is, if she sees you remaining trustworthy to her, she's going to find that very mature and of good quality. This alone might attract her to you more

Do a Favor for her : make a little voucher and stick it somewhere where she'll find it. Have on it "redeem at any time." The idea is to let her know you are there for her and you will be there for her any time she wishes you.

The Last Tip

Learn how to communicate with your ex efficiently. This mean you should sit done with her one on one and debate your problems that was the cause of split.

Do not...I repeat...Do not start an argument with your ex.

Just tell her how you truthfully feel and let her do the same. You could be surprise about how much you men do not know about one another.

But Wait! .We do not even know if you can even get your ex girlfriend back... - 30535

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How To Secrets About Controlling Your Anger

By Broyde McDonald

Anger is simply one of a number of emotions that contribute to the true character and personal power of a person. The way that you handle and control your anger helps determine the way the world responds to you.

While anger is uncontrolled, it is terrifying and dangerous and can lead to more anger. Controlled anger is another form of anger and it is helpful for solving problems. The facts are that if it were not for anger, many times there would be things wrong and we would not know that they needed fixing.

One of the ways you can tell if you have control of your anger is by noticing the way you feel and act when angry. If you can calmly choose your words, and not experience any tenseness or anxiety inside you, you can be free to think that your anger is being managed alright.

However, if when you are angry you only recognize what you said after you had said it, then you need to fix this area because you can cause more trouble for yourself.

There are many ways that you can control you anger. Are you going to control your anger? Good there are a lot of tools to help you do this? All you need to do is sort through and find the methods that work best for you.

The first two things you want to do when controlling your anger is first, understand when you are starting to get angry. The second thing you need to be able to do is quickly gather up your willpower when you do start to get mad and do something that calms you instead of letting your anger swell into rage.

Excuse mehold on a minuteone secondbe right backyou can use one of these, or a similar phrase to rescue yourself from a potentially hostile situation. You only need to say it, walk away, and stay away until your anger has cooled off.

Walking away is like training wheels on a bicycle. You will only need to use this method until you get better at managing your anger. Once your anger management skills are improved you will be able to skip the walking away step and use another skill in its place.

However, until then walking away and counting slowly, first to ten, twenty or one thousand as needed until you are no longer angry will keep the damaging effects of anger away.

Until you are controlling your anger better, make sure that you are not underestimating the power of this act to help. It is simple, but it has helped others and it will help you too.

When thinking about long term solutions to your anger situation, let the place you start at be taking the time to relax every day. As you take the time out to daily get some time alone and think about the things that satisfy you, you will get out of your angry situations much more easily. Whether you believe it or not, doing this will take a lot of the tension out of your anger.

Get a little help with managing your anger.

If you decide that you want to get your anger under control more speedily, I suggest that you use one of the classes offered by one of these two anger management professional programs. You can expect that in 8 weeks of training, that you will be able to handle your anger 20% better than you can now. - 30535

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How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back - The Steps You Want To Take

By Jamie Drake

Dangerous times calls for desperate measures? NOT in this example. Women, if you're wanting to get your ex boyfriend back, despair is certainly not the way to go. For whatever reason you have split up, now isn't the time to sound like a demanding, bratty princess!! It's time to toughen up that tiny heart of yours and step back to gain new perspective on what was the reason for the split to begin with.

Take a large deep breath, go and loaf around with some long lost girls. In doing so you may certainly gain your composure and start to become more confident. If your aspirations are how to get your ex boyfriend back, this is the first step, most definitely. Rediscover yourself and become the girl he fell completely in love with at the start.

Once you have found yourself again, pardon him of any past wrongdoings. As you have gained some new viewpoint on the entire relationship, it's time to let your light shine. No guarantees, however there's a wrong way and a right way do it.

If you found yourself very clingy or too possessive, that is the 1st unpleasant habit to smash. You both need independence. Also, absence not only makes the heart grow fonder, but it causes him to miss you. In order to get your ex boyfriend back, start by doing the tiny things that you did when you 2 first started dating. Perhaps there was a little way-with-words strategy that he used. Show him that you recollected, yet do not be too clear or over bearing. This is a slow process.

If there was a favorite place that you two visited in the beginning of the relationship revisit it and let him know you thought about him when you probably did, through e-mail. In the target of attempting to get your ex boyfriend back, it is vital to be yourself.

Vengeance is not a good move, as much as you wish to make a pass at a pal of his. This will not just make him envious, it will push him further away. It's also strongly recommended to just make out like you'd still be happy even though you are not together. - 30535

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