Unreciprocated Love and Concern Leads to Emotional Infidelity

By John Miller

Emotional marriage which is a product of emotional infidelity becomes an incredible union especially between two strangers who, by some amazing accident, happen to cross their paths. In most cases, emotional infidelity has become the best remedy for one who is nursing a terrible shock and pain of a broken heart. Someone out there somewhere helps one picks up the pieces of a shattered ego. One may stay married only in paper and by name but in some remote space one is enjoying the comfort of being loved and appreciated from an outside party.

The feeling of belongingness to someone who cares and loves you is indeed an unimaginable experience. No amount of money can equate that enormous happiness of knowing that you are still a person capable of loving and being equally loved in return. Love is the most mysterious emotion that can move heaven and earth and move mountains. Being loved and needed is such a wonderful feeling with a fathomless meaning.

To forget someone once special is to find someone more special. But love sometimes comes from some strange places and it becomes beautiful when two strange people with individual differences come to accept each other and genuinely fall in love. Superficial love based on physical attraction may not last, but a relationship founded on a higher level is bound for eternity. It is a match made in heaven, supposed to be! Alas! They could have the right love, unfortunately at the wrong time for one is already committed.

Emotional entanglement is one of the most difficult situations to handle in case of an eventual break up. It is truly devastating much worse than a physical involvement. Cases of emotional infidelity often occur and this is merely on the emotional level. Physical chastity is still maintained while emotions deep inside the lovers concerned are erupting and outpouring.

Everything on this planet is subject to constant change and it is only change that remains constant. If you love someone, you have to nurture it and let it flourish with mutual respect and understanding of the other persons shortcoming and misgivings. If only pure and unconditional love prevails, then there shall be no room for emotional infidelity. - 30535

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